I must have the best horse trainer and instructor on earth. She has helped me and my horse work through our issues and come out better than ever. She said it’s like we went through marriage counseling. So true!

Apache did well during his week with Tarrin. She got him back to paying attention to his rider and getting confident. Lots of great work gave him such a good tuneup. Obviously. We went out into the pasture like we did it every day.

We also successfully made it down the passageway he had so much trouble with last week, twice, without incident.

Apache gets to stay another week for further refinement. It is probably not his idea of fun. It may be, though, because he has always seemed to be having fun when we did things together in the past. We always enjoyed trail rides with Sara and going to clinics. I’m looking forward to a clinic in a couple of weeks, now that we are doing better together.

I feel a lot better now that I have the tools I need to communicate well and not confuse Apache. And I can stop his inclination to test me quickly. We both have refined our skills. Of course, there is way more to do.

Wait until we get to trotting and someday cantering! That would be real progress for him. He’s never been balanced enough to canter well. Let’s hope his trainer has more education ready to roll out. I think she does.






Thanks to my photographer friends, Tarrin, Teddy, and Lee. They captured moments that will keep me going in the coming weeks whenever I feel useless and unimportant. I’m important to my horses!

Definitely great pictures! It’s funny how photographs can not only be used as memory markers but also to give us direction and confidence. Sometimes a photo captures a feeling for me that I want to return to in my horsemanship. And there have been certain photos I viewed before I ride to help focus and center me, photos that captured a particularly good moment in time that I’d like to recreate during future rides. And so glad you are pleased with the results of your “marriage counseling.” I have had a similar experience with a trainer in the past. Someone who helped me bridge the communication gaps with my now retired horse, Bear. Worth its weight in gold for sure. Anywho, this was a great post to read!
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Thank you for the kind comment. I plan to stare at those photos whenever I hit the inevitable snags.
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A beautiful, beautiful post with a beautiful horse and a content rider sharing her joy, feeling her joy and gratitude, life is good….
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Thank you. It was a great moment.
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